When I got back to my parents’ house, it was amazingly quiet and empty. A note on the kitchen counter said that my parents had taken the posse of grand-kids off to do some shopping and would be back in a few hours. There was an added note from my brother that he and his wife had also gone shopping and planned to be gone until dinnertime. Of my sisters, there was no sign and no note. Shrugging, I wandered up to the room I was sharing with my nine year old niece to do some of the work I’d been neglecting since I had arrived. Playing with my nieces and nephews was much more fun than working, however much I loved my work. It was hard to sit and write in the midst of the family chaos.
It was my habit to spend a few minutes warming up my fingers by writing whatever came to mind. Then, I’d move on to writing for my assignment, whatever it happened to be. That day, my mind could not be swayed from the topic of Simon, of his dead wife and orphaned children, and of the relationship he and I had shared so long ago. Why had I run into him now? Why not five years before? Why had we broken up to begin with? I was sure I had forgotten something from that time, because all I could remember were the good things about our relationship.
He and I had laughed together, played together, talked endlessly and our dreams had coincided in exhilarating ways. Despite having both come to the relationship as virgins, we were good together sexually speaking. In fact, I still remembered him as one of the best lovers I’d ever had. The world I remembered from those days had seemed right and good. After we had broken up, my world had never had the same sweet simplicity as it did then.
Was it just the blissful ignorance of childhood? Did I suddenly enter the world of adulthood when he and I had broken up? I remembered that I’d done the breaking off, but it hadn’t been a reason that I’d consider valid since I’d grown older. It had seemed so large an obstacle then, to be faced with the possibility of a pregnancy. I had broken up with him after a traumatic pregnancy scare because I didn’t want either of us to sacrifice our dreams to a baby. I hadn’t wanted him to have the chance to resent me for destroying any chance he’d had of reaching his dreams. I knew that if we were together, we’d want to make love. I knew that if we weren’t careful, making love would result in a baby. I just didn’t feel it was worth the risk. I hadn’t told him this rationale. I had told him that we were growing apart, going off to college, and I felt like our relationship had grown as far as it could. It had hurt to tell him that. I had loved him so much. I had honestly felt I was doing what was in both of our best interests though.
My thoughts were interrupted by the distant ringing of the house phone. I heard clattering feet running to answer it, and I realized my parents were home with my nieces and nephews. Then I heard Callie, my sister’s four year old yelling, “Aunt Dana! The phone’s for you!!!” Could it be Simon? I wondered. I didn’t think he would call so quickly.
I trotted down the stairs, dodging toys and excited little bodies as I went. It amazed me that between my three siblings there were ten children. I adored them all, but I couldn’t help but be in awe of how many there were. Finally I stumbled over little Callie where she was crouched by the kitchen door, hiding, I guess, from one of her cousins.
“Oh yes, Simon! We’d love to see you and to meet your little girls. You know you’re always welcome in our home, darling.” My mom’s eyes darted to me. They held worry, warmth, and a healthy number of questions. But I knew she’d wait to ask. She was the soul of discretion. “Any way, Dana just got to the kitchen, so I’ll let you talk to her now. It’s been good to hear from you, dear.” There was a pause and she smiled at something Simon said. “Yes, I know. Ok, dear. I look forward to seeing you soon,” she said and then she passed the phone to me.
“Hello, Simon.” I said. I grabbed a coat that looked like it would fit from the hooks by the back door and went outside to talk where it was less noisy. It would have been nearly impossible to find my own coat, so I didn’t bother, but the coat I’d chosen was on the snug side. It must have belonged to one of my almost teenage nephews.
“Hey, Dana.” I could hear little girls chattering in the background. “Listen, I’m not sure getting together would be such a good idea.” His voice, normally so warm and rich sounded flat and dead. I frowned.
“I just wanted a chance to talk, Simon.” I had felt quietly excited that he’d called so soon, but now I felt a deep disappointment. He didn’t want to see me again. I sighed.
“I just don’t see what we have to talk about, Dana. What we had was so long ago and,” A tiny voice said, “Daddy! Bridget stealed my toy!” “Just a minute, Dana.” She could hear that he was talking, but it was muffled as if he’d covered the mouthpiece before talking to his daughter. “It’s just not a great time for me, Dana,” he said when came back on the line.
“I see.” We both fell silent. He told Bridget not to play with the phone.
“Well, if we have nothing of the past to talk about, fine. But I’d really like to meet your daughters, if that’d be ok.” I hoped I didn’t sound as desperate as I felt when I said that.
“Coffee shops aren’t really kid friendly, Dana.” His comment was droll, a parent talking to a non-parent, as if having to spell out the ways of the world.
“No, of course they aren’t! We’ll just have to meet somewhere else. Maybe the mall? Does it still have that play area at the center?”
“No, at this time of year it’s Winter Wonderland, with Santa and all.” I heard Effie chanting “Santa Claus! Santa Claus!” in the backgroung and I could hear an adult’s feminine voice speaking, although I couldn’t decipher the words.
“It’s ok, Mom. It’s my fault, I shouldn’t have said the name. I know better.” So it was his mother speaking behind him. To me, he said, “Ok, Effie wants to go meet the man in the red suit and I told her earlier that we could go tonight. Can you meet us at the mall around six?” I checked my watch. It was already five o’clock and I was expected to be around for dinner. I had a feeling my mom would understand though.
“Six o’clock, it is, Simon. I’ll meet you by Santa, then?”
“By Santa. Six o’clock. Don’t give up on me until six thirty, if I’m not there on time. I’m still getting the hang of getting places on time with two kids in tow.” Again that droll humor was apparent in his voice.
“Alright, Simon. I’ll see you there. Bye for now.” I listen to him say goodbye and then I hung up the phone. I stared out over the backyard where I’d spent many hours playing as a child. And over on the porch, to my left, was the old porch swing where Simon and I had spent hours snuggling as teenagers. Before that, I remember cuddling up between my dad and my sisters in that swing. We used to sit out there on dark summer nights and look out at the fireflies flashing in the yard. I went and sat down on it now, swinging gently back and forth. I sighed.
I didn’t know what I was hoping to accomplish by meeting Simon’s daughters. I didn’t know what I wanted from Simon. There were emotions stirring in my heart that hadn’t moved since I had left Simon behind and gone to college. Was that why they were dancing now? Did I need Simon to bring that part of my heart to life? I groaned, I just didn’t know. What I did know was that I needed to go make my excuses to the family and get out the door to the mall so that I wasn’t late.
Read the whole story here: Part One, Part Two, Part Three, Part Four, Part Five, Part Six, Part Seven, Part Eight, Part Nine, Part Ten, and El Fin